Hey my bloggers family, I hope you all are doing well, this post is gonna be some different because i am not gonna share any trick or tutorial but a life lesson and my personal experience.
Hi, I am Abhishek Thenua basically i’m from Mathura but now living in Delhi NCR, I was entered in this internet world in 2013 when I was 13 years old. Now (2019) I have good knowledge of digital marketing and IT.
Current Lifestyle (February 2019
I wake up late in the morning, and sleep around 2:00 – 3:00 AM in night, not doing any job or proper studies, I am wasting my talent or experience which I gained in last 5 years since 2013. Living in Delhi NCR , not doing any fun or enjoying the life because of financial conditions, Even I don’t have enough money to renew my domains & hosting, just wasting my days like that and trying to connect with the audience by writing this post about my personal life.
How I Started Engineering
It was August 2017: after facing a lot of problems with my family, my parents agreed to allow me to do Engineering. Now there you might got a question in your mind, why I had a lot of problems with my parents, well to the point: My father wanted me to manage their family business and When I disagreed them, they were very angry and unsatisfied with my aim of being a software engineer. I got that dream of being software engineer because I was always passionate about computers, technology , games.
So I was much clear to my goal that I’ll be a software engineer, so here i’m skipping all the family issues I got at that time so let’s go ahead to the time when I started my engineering after facing these all problems.
So Finally in August 2017, My father has taken me to NIIT (National Institute of Information Technology) for admission and it was done. I would like to show you a picture of the first invoice
That moment was very precious to me, and get admitted for software engineering after few tests.
How Was My Learning And Enjoying
I Enjoyed a lot these times, and learned as well. I got some friends out there which are still with me, That was the precious time of my life and enjoyed a lot, Daily I go for engineering for classes of two hours from Hathras to Mathura by Train. First month i was little out of confidence but as soon as I get comfortable with faculty then it was awesome. I was top in my first semester of “Microsoft office” and got few jealous students as well (That’s common in student life) but that goes well and enjoyed almost 5 months of my engineering there. I got my Microsoft result card and it was not bad.
It was going good till that time but after sometime that branch of NIIT got sucks and they were like not teaching well, I and my friend tried to complain with the higher department but no response was generated.
then there was a decision of mine which took me Delhi from Mathura.
My Decision of Transferring to Delhi
Nobody was listening to us and we were wasting our money, so and one of my friend decided to get out of there to Delhi Cannought Place Branch of NIIT, I was shifted here in a PG on maybe 2018 July, all was done but the worst thing happened was the “POLITICS”, as I asked for the transfer to the manager of that branch, initial times they denied by saying a lot of stuff, but as i kept on asking for 2 months then they decided to let us go to Delhi branch, but the worst thing they had done was “They didn’t send any application to NIIT Departments for our transfer” so we were rejected from NIIT Delhi, but there we got one teacher who listened to us and we told everything, then she allowed us to study there for 10 – 15 days , it was time for us to get the transfer application, but the manager of Mathura branch didn’t do that and we were stuck in middle. though I have paid almost 90000/- INR to that branch, it was advance , I asked them to refund the advance amount, but they didn’t do it too.
My conditions were bad and here my father stopped to transfer me money to pay my rents of PG and daily expenses due to some family problem that i would like to skip here. but as i was in this field since 2013, I was earning through selling expired domains and through adsense, it was not too much but i was enable to pay the daily expenses, and paid 2 months rent of PG by my savings through that adsense/expired domains money.
Worst Things Happened
I was just passing my days through these incomes and then I tried job in digital marketing area, I was interviewed in 3 companies and selected in the forth one, that was in Gurgaon. I daily did travel of 2 hours from Delhi to Gurgaon and salary was just Eight Thousands Rupees. i was spending and investing my whole time in job, then I realized that I can do a lot in blogging and this digital marketing if I invest these hours for myself rather than in a company for someone else. I left Job. I was getting some income through expired domain selling business and adsense, but due to tensions and being independent I was not enable to do a lot because of stress. Then the other worst thing happened was accident, Me and my friend got accident by truck and here was the time when I got totally out of everything, BTW! Now I am fine, but My friend has lost his 3 fingers of leg (That’s I really feel bad for, but still thank to God that we both are safe and living the life), I was totally disconnected from all my work for the 1 month and everything got fuc**d off, I lost my savings , I lost my money and I lost my investments and the work i was getting income through.
After facing these all situations I am not able to continue my engineering, so I dropped it out. I can’t pay 11k INR per month of installment due to my financial conditions of that accident. It’s obvious that now i’m in little depression but trying my best to recover everything.
Currently (February 2019) I am even not able to pay bills of my domains and hosting and PGs rent, Just shared this article with my audience , because I want always to share my feelings with you all and I Hope you can help me if you want, I have putted the “DONATION SYSTEM” on this website if you want me to help, i am not forcing, just if you want to help me you can donate some funds, it doesn’t if it less or more.
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